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writes:I have this group of friends who I sometimes hang out with. And to my dismay,a guy from this group of friends confessed to me and I rejected him. Now I feel very uncomfortable and awkward seeing him. The problem is he still keeps initiating group meets up. I really don't feel like joining all these meets up but I feel guilty when I reject all the meet Ups.. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (3 June 2013):
 He obviously doesn't feel bad about it.
Just go. You've heard the phrase "fake it til you make it", haven't you? You won't get over it until you make yourself see him and see for yourself that he doesn't feel awkward about it.
It's not like being rejected is the end of the world. So what, he can always date someone else. It's not that big of a deal.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (3 June 2013):
 Hello,
Sorry to be so blunt, but if there is a place where you no longer feel comfortable....why are you beating up yourself about going there? Someone approached you and you feel uncomfortable...sooooo why do you feel guilty?
Why can't you meet up with some of the friends within the group...outside of the group? It's all your choice.
Ana
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