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Think I scared her off...How do I fix this?

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Question - (23 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *oey d writes:

Hi im 18 and theres this girl whose 16 on monday and who i realy like, who lives round the corner from me who used to speak with me on msn,one time i got her number on msn and we used to speak on there evrey day and i couldnt talk to her without gettin drunk and the first time i phoned ere i told her i love her but i was recked and we just lafed it off then i few weeks later i later i told her on msn i realy like her and carnt stop finking about her she went offline and the next day she was goin on holiday for 2 weeks and i txt her evryday sain i miss her then when she got back i phoned her to see if she was ok and she said yes but she was jetlagged so i left her then the day after it was my birthday and she dint wish me happy birthday so i got my cusin to phone her but we was drunk and she told him she likes me as a mate but since thn shes never spoke to me on msn but for mounthes ive bin phoning her but when i was drunk and now she says she hates me and shes sent her parents round once or twice and i sent her flours just after valentines day and her mum said it freaked her out and i hate myself for the way ive treated her but i still really really like her so is there a way i can make it up to her atall ?

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A male reader, joey d United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2009):

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I already knew her before about 5-8 years ago as kids i used to play football with her brother and she played with my sisters and we all played hide n seek and all the kiddie games but she was shy then.

This started in june last year when i told her i love her then her parents came 1st a couple of weeks before christmas ,i havent phoned her for nearly 2 mounthes now officially but i dont no what to do now :-(

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A female reader, blueys491 United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

blueys491 agony auntI agree with Tig, Ive been in that situation and it can sometimes freak a girl out when a guy comes on that strongly that quickly... the best thing to do is just give her some space and in a few weeks start off with a simple hello..hows the weather been kind of coversation

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A female reader, jessylisa United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2009):

NO, your behavior is harrasment you are acting like a stalker!!!

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2009):

anoms agony aunthey pal dont beat yourself up if that chick doesnt appretiate you and your valentines flowers, she probably got a shock because most guys your age dont make the effort anymore. but rather then talking to her when your already drunk you should just try inviting her out for a drink in future, then tell her how you feel, gudluk.

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A female reader, Tig Ireland +, writes (23 April 2009):

hey there sorry now to say this but i have been in that girls position before and it gets annoyin very fast... give her some space like a couple of weeks. i no this prob sounds harsh but u came on to strong and that seriosly freaks girls out big time drunk r nor drunk to tell a girl that u love the first time u ever spoke to her on the phone is just reali wrong. i dont no if she will ever want to reali be ur friend again but definaltly give her some space and maybe in a couple of weeks she might want to speak again if u tell her just how sorry u r n that u would reali like to b mates...

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