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Things aren't right between us, but when I suggest a break up, she gets emotional and cries. Does she really love me?

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Question - (13 November 2007)

6 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)

A male age 30-35, *uri12 writes:

Lately its not going well between me and my gf. She is acting all weird against me. But everytime i try talking about a break up she gets all emotional and she crys. Well i think she doesn't really loves me anymore. But she says she does. Only the next day she gives friends and other people warmer welcome like me. She also sound annoyed wen i am around her or wen she says hi to me. So what should i do i am so confused?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

Maybe she just don't know how a funny way of showing it. I think you and her should shit down and talk and say what you two are really feelong and if things still don't work out maybe you both should go your own ways but and and your gf should talk first if something going on with her she should not let it ger in the way of you and relationship no matter

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

Maybe she just don't know how a funny way of showing it. I think you and her should shit down and talk and say what you two are really feelong and if things still don't work out maybe you both should go your own ways but and and your gf should talk first

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A male reader, Yuri12 +, writes (14 November 2007):

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Well i still do love her much. So i talked with her about and she said That she was sorry for ignoring me and just having a rough time. Also she just is hiding her real self infrond everyone but me. She said she really loved me much and really doesn't want to lose me. Now am i really confused... cause i don't know if she loves me or not?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

Listen mate. The question here is do you love her?? Because you should be thinking about yourself in this. If you do love her than you should stay with her and try to help her through whatever is going on, but if you don't then there's no point in staying with her.And in a way its kinda cruel for you keep her if you don't love her. The sooner you break up with her the sooner she can get over you. Think about it before you make a serious decision.

Best of luck. x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

I used to be that way with my ex boyfriend.

I didn't really love him anymore, i was just so attached that i was afraid to let go. I didn't want to loose him as a friend. I was also really confused because i didn't know if i even wanted to be in a serious relationship. i can't tell you she's think the way i did but it sounds like she might.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

She don't really love you she just don't want you to leave but you should cause she's wasting your time do us all a favor and dump her. Keep me posted on what happen

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