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writes:This is soooo bizarre and ive been going out of mind wiv worry today. Basically, I went to the sex clinic on Friday to get tested for STI's. I have only had 1 sexual partner (my ex) in the last year and before him I had got tested and was all clear. Recently I noticed I was spotting slightly between periods, and last week I had a pain in my lower abdomen which felt like I was about to come on, but it was 2 weeks until my period. So I decided to get myself checked out. Anyway, the doctor took a vaginal swab and told me afterwards that she had found some pus cells which indicated infection. She had to send the swab to the main laboratory for diagnosis on everything I had been tested for, but she was sure I had an infection, she didnt say which, and gave me a single course of antibiotics to take straight away. She told me to ring the clinic on 13th May for my results. I was also advised to inform all sexual partners of the last year. This is where the trouble starts. I told my ex and suggested he get checked. As he was my only sexual partner over the last year, and I had been given the all clear before him, I naturally assumed he had given it ot me. Unfortunately for him, he has just started going out wiv a girl who he has fallen for big time and I told him he would have to tell her (theyve started sleeping together). This has caused a big row and I think they may have even split up.But today, I decided to ring for my results even though its too early. I was very suprised when the receptionist said I was all clear on everything, even tho the doc said that she was sure I had an infection.Now Im too scared to tell my ex Im all clear as he will think I did all this to split him and his gf up. Im so angry that they told me I had something, then I get a negative result . How is this possible? and if I keep my mouth shut and not tell my ex, his results may come back clear and he will think that I had the infection and that I had slept around. I dont know wot to do!!!! I did tell my sis and she said that as I rang early, perhaps the receptionist made a mistake and gave me last years tests results, as I wasnt supposed to ring until 13th. Could this be possible?
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (8 May 2008):
listen to ur sister and wait until the 13th. It in't ur fault about ur ex and his new piece. It could be that he's slept around and is taking his guilt out on her. Either way not ur problem.
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