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writes:Hello,Me and my girlfriend have been discussing sex and we are probably going to have sex soonish, like within the next few months. She has two issues though:Firstly she has heard all the shock stories like it hurts sooo much. Can anyone confirm this or tell otherwise?Lastly she is a bit self concience about her body, like she thinks she's too fat and stuff (which she's not, i've told her this but she won't believe me). Can anyone help me make her not self concience because i want to before we jump into sex see each other naked and stuff just to gradually go into sex, if you know what i mean.Thanks for any advice you give :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel Baby  +, writes (11 May 2008):
First off, yes, its going to hurt. But, that's something that's going to happen no matter what. She'll be fine, just be sure if she asks you to go slow that you do. And second, I know how she feels on the self concious thing; I am too. But when I lost mine, the guy I was with made me feel so wanted and loved. He always told me how beautiful I was and everything. He made me feel great. He just showed how much he loved me and how much he was attracted to me, and it made me feel great. Make sure yall are ready, talk a little more. Make sure she really knows that you really do love her and that you really do think she's beautiful.
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