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There is no way to get in touch with him

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Question - (18 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *reciousGemx writes:

I went too Canada during the holidays. As we are waiting in the waiting zone i notice this really gorgeous guy. He was looking after his 2 little brothers while his mum and dad went too get food. Although he was gorgeous he looked shy. Which was normally quite weird 'cause i expect gorgeous guys too be full of themselves.

When we get on the plane i notice he is a couple of rows infront of me. Half way through the flight i open my eyes for just a second and hes stood there watching me while hes waiting in the line.

Then hes on the same plane back too the UK, and just a few rows behind me. I get up too go too the loo and we look straight at eachother. Then when i come out of the loo hes there in the line. So i have too squeeze past him 'cause the plane is tiny.

I pretty much forgot about him until this weekend. Im out shopping with my mum for friends presents. And i see him. Immediatly he sees me and we just stare at eachother. Then i thought this isnt coincidence (sorry about spelling if thats wrong). So i have too walk of the opposite direction and when im in this other shop trying on shoes at the doorway he walks past and smiles at me.

This cannot be coincidence. Can it? Its driving me crazy not knowing his name but kind of fancying him. What am i going too do? Its driving me crazy but there is no way i can get in touch with him!

I know im only young but its like love at first sight.

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A female reader, PreciousGemx United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2007):

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PreciousGemx agony auntthis guy looks about 15-16. and he cant be over 16 cos his parents were only in their mid - late 30s. by the look.

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (19 November 2007):

Blue_Angel0316 agony aunt You have seen him at least twice already. You know that he is in close vacinity of your locations. Give it time and you will probably have contact with him again.

Don't rush things as you are so young but if you two do meet up and you get the chance to say hello don't pass it by. You have every opportunity to make a friend.

If this chanced meeting occurs try to find out his age and take it from there. I would advise having a parent to chaperone you if you two meet and decide to go out as they term it. I have a 12 year old granddaughter. She is only allowed to (date) so to speak when being chaperoned.

In time you will most likely will see him again so just wait it out and have fun doing the things you normally do in the time being. From the sounds of it he seems to be attracted to you also and could possibly like to be your friend.

He could be shy since he hasn't approaced you or he could just be acting cautiously since he doesn't know you. His reluctance to speak could be out of fear of rejection or maybe he feels he is too old for you. It might be out of a respect for you or if you are with a parent he could be in fear of what they would think or say.

Just remember that sometimes people will frequent the same old places so you can try going back to the place you saw him but please go with someone who is responsible and can be trusted to watch after you. Not that you are a baby but just to be safe.

The best to you and God bless you in finding your special someone. Just remember to take your time in letting go of your heart you are young. Time can change many things. That feeling of falling in love (and at first site)*Smiles* is a special feeling and tender feeling. Sometimes it has been known that finding this feeling in your heart can last forever but then again it is sometimes turns out to be what is referred to as PUPPY LOVE.

Seek God's wisdom and your heart will forever be changed.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntWell alot of us have been there.

We see a person we think is attractive, and "fall" for them. It then goes away but sometime comes back.

Not to sound rude here but this is what happens. We create personalities for these people, what they are like, how they would talk to is if we were in a relationship, names etc. It happens to msot of us with peoplewe make eye contact with or even celebrities.

Dont go crazy over this boy. But if you do happen to see him, stop him and say you recognise him from the plane and before, get his name and even his number. That why the picture of the boy will become more complete

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