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writes:By chance I found quite some porn in the pc and i noticed that all the women in the video are so different from me. Also the sexual positions or whatever happens in the videos is so different from what me and my husband do.I have a normal weight, normal breasts, but nice shapes. What my husband watches are women overweight, with huge breasts. Another disturbing thing is that sometimes he was choosing teens. In addition, there were women dressed like waitresses for example, as well as anal sex. While it is understandeble why teens disturb me, i don't get why he doesn't want to have anal sex with me, and he doesn't want me to dress up in costums. He says he doesn't like this, but obviously he likes to watch it. Basically all he watches is so different from me and from what we do in bed...I really do not know what to think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): Wow sorry thought I wrote this lol my husbands the same and I tell him if I don't know then I won't care but if I get neglected its a problem I am skinny and have big boobs and a perfect butt but the thing is it don't matter how great u look or how big ur boobs are they just like it for ideas or to get off don't want to put the work in there lazy lol don't feel bad bout urself if u want him to stop tell him or just don't no about it and feel okay and think he stoped its up 2 you but men are pigs end of story till they mature more this is behavior you'll have to deal with
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reader, Enya1979 +, writes (8 May 2012):
Enya1979 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you.
The problem is that sharing it with me is the last thing he would want. This is too private he says.
And he definitly does not want to do something different than the normal sex, but he likes to watch others do it. I simply do not get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): Its normal.. maybe you should watch with him and suggest something that they do in the video. Some guys get tired of the vanilla sex and want something different, that could be you, just give it a try.
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reader, x3chelciemarie  +, writes (8 May 2012):
 Its perfectly normal for men to watch porn diffrent from the sex life of their own. Just becauses he watches women dressed as waitresses or anal sex does not mean he really wants to do it. Porn is very very over exagerrated sex and many of it has crazy themes because an average guy would probably most likely never fin himself in the situation given in porn, how often are you gonna see your guy walk in to a restraunt and the waitesss tell him to meet her in the back room or w.e? Not very often! Porn is meant to make a man or woman imagine sex in a whole new way than the typical "bedroom sex". Now your guy probably fantasizes about doing these acts, but maybe he feels a little embaressed or diffrent asking you to dress up like a waitress. Maybe he wants to keep these fantasizes in Porn and not in his current sex life. Is your sex life good? If it is, then dont worry about the Porn.
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