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I found out boyfriend has a profile and is actively seeking others. How do I approach him with this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I been together a year and one night at work I was looking for a chat room to talk to people when I stumbled on a dating site where u could look and see what kind of people are on there and I saw my boyfriend on there with a profile ...

A.   9 May 2012: Well, guys can be sneaky about these things. If you truly want to find out, then sing up in this web page with a fake account and contact him. Let's see if he will contact you back. If you ask him, he will simply say that it is an old account and he ... (read in full...)

The women in the porns my husband watches are so different from me

Q.   By chance I found quite some porn in the pc and i noticed that all the women in the video are so different from me. Also the sexual positions or whatever happens in the videos is so different from what me and my husband do. I have a normal weight, ...

A.   8 May 2012: Thank you. The problem is that sharing it with me is the last thing he would want. This is too private he says. And he definitly does not want to do something different than the normal sex, but he likes to watch others do it. I simply do not get ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my parents I can't stand their parenting style?

Q.   I'm 25 yet my parents have always been overly strict, controlling and verbally abusive. I can't stand how they never want me to leave home even though I'm a grown adult. I've always done the right thing and been a A grade student. Yet I'm always ...

A.   8 May 2012: Even so they think that you have to be married to leave home, you don't need their permission to leave. get an apartment and go. If your afraid to lose them if you leave, believe me you won't. They will understand with the time. I left home whe... (read in full...)

My friend wants to leave his controlling wife but now she is pregnant

Q.   My best friend marriage is a disaster, he always loved another women but still married his current wife. She know about his feelings and was sure that he will get over it. But last year it was very hard so he was going to break up with her and get ...

A.   8 May 2012: Of course it is possible to be happy, your friend just have to want it badly enough to take hard decisions. Trust me it is better to have divorced parents then parents that do not love each other. Of course you should tell your friend that this girl ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on chasing her?

Q.   I keep attracting bad girls. I'm quite okay looking and tall. I guess I'm super nice and well mannered, but I'm quite shy and nervous when I meet girls. I basically do what I'm told and then get taken advantage of. . As soon as they know I am very ...

A.   8 May 2012: As a girl i can say that i would never let a guy wait for my reply for so long . Maybe a little bit, to make him desire me more, but not long. This means that you should not have your hopes so high. wait for her to come to you. And do not get her ... (read in full...)

It hurts that the man who would drop anything for me only to give me a lift, will no longer drop anything for me.

Q.   2 years ago i met a wonderful man in town but was still in love with my ex who had dumped me a month before. We started seeing each other even though i wasn't ready but he said he'd give me all the time i need. he would do anything for me - pick me ...

A.   8 May 2012: This is not good. I am sorry to say this, but it feels like he is more into achieving things, and does not evaluate them anymore after he has them. The only thing i can think of is that you really really have to have a serious talk with him. D... (read in full...)

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