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He no longer finds me sexually attractive so he wants my permission to find a f*ckbuddy

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 12 years, and we have been faithfully together for 16 years, Renently I was diagnoised with cancer, we made it through the post op and everything fine, unfortunatly I put on about 170 lbs and he dosn't find me ...

A.   2 August 2006: Remind your husband of the vowls he took when he married you. In sickness and health....need i say anymore... (read in full...)

This guy wants to have is cake and eat it too

Q.   Back with my ex after nearly 4 years apart. I did write in before in July as my ex had said he wanted to get back with me and our son who is almost 6 now. I didn't know whether to believe him as he was living with another woman and kept saying he ...

A.   2 August 2006: look into www.flexispy.com you can download software onto his phone when he is sleeping. you will then be able to look up every text msg he or she sends to each other and even listen live into their phone conversations all on your pc. I did it ... (read in full...)

Once a cheater, always a cheater, and I'm a bloody fool

Q.   I met my partner 5 years ago. He had recently ended his marriage and was very honest about the fact that he had an affair with a woman for 4 years during his marriage. He ended it and said that she took it badly, but he didnt love her. 3 months ago ...

A.   26 July 2006: The only way you will know is to find the evidence yourself. Go to www.flexispy.com and download the software on to his phone. It will cost you £27 and you will be able to read every text msg he sends or recieves from you pc. It will tell you on the ... (read in full...)

I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant

Q.   iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...

A.   26 July 2006: Go to your local chemist or supermarket and get a test off the shelf. You will know the answer within 3 minutes.... (read in full...)

The whole town knows.... but how do I get solid proof my hubby is cheating?

Q.   I suspect my husband is cheating. Its embarrassing because the whole town knows, but there is no way for me to get some solid proof that he's doing that. All the signs are there, the whole town tells me about it, he has a prepaid phone so that there ...

A.   26 July 2006: I think i might be able to help you on this.My husband was also having an affair recently with a family member so i had to have the evidence or it would not be believed. Go to www.flexispy.com and you can download software on to his phone..this will ... (read in full...)

Can you get rid of periods?

Q.   Is there anyway to stop/get rid of your period? I hate my period I'm 25 and want to know is there anything I can do about it....

A.   26 July 2006: Go see your GP and ask about the depo injection n. Im also on it and dont have any periods not even the slightest tummy ache each month. If you decide that you what children in the future then it takes about a year to fully leave you system and it m... (read in full...)

He's 34 and prefers teen porn sites instead of me...what should I do?

Q.   My partner and I have been together for nearly 2 years and have lived together for the past 6 months. Every time I am out or at work he is on the internet porn sites, he's 34 and many of the sites he visits are teen sex. I have asked him about this ...

A.   26 July 2006: There is no doubt in mind that this man needs help.A little porn can be accepted but teen porn is just sick at his age. You have to have a serious chat with this man...Put your foot down and make him make a choice. This is no life for you, he is ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend got genital warts, but wants to go back to no condoms, what do I do?

Q.   Hello. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. A month ago she told me she had been to the hospital and been diagnosed with genital warts. I was shocked and scared and we went though a tough period where I found it hard to trust her (the ...

A.   22 July 2006: Put it this way ...if you have sex with her then you will catch it and on a mans penis is not very attractive. There is no way she will put her mouth around that! Stay clear and protect yourself at all times.... (read in full...)

I'm depressed - can anyone recommend websites where I can discuss my condition?

Q.   I keep sending some questions to this site but I don't feel it is working because a) the questions are not submitted by the person as they are irrelevant (i.e. depression) and b) the answers people give me are not really good (no disrespect I've ...

A.   22 July 2006: Please go to your GP.Depression can become a very serious condition .I suffered many years of depression after having children which made my life hell.... (read in full...)

What do girls look for in a guy?

Q.   Girls-what do you look for in guys, like hair, body, personality etc...

A.   22 July 2006: I always go for looks first..if i double take then i will check out the rest. Never tuck your shirt in and always wear trendy shoes. Mobile phones must never be seen. Smelling nice is important and i like a man to look a little rough on the edges ... (read in full...)

Advice from those people having affairs please.

Q.   hello..a question to those of you having affairs(come on you know you're out there)i have begun an affair but have no intention of leaving my husband for my lover and neither does my lover want or expect me to. we are both happy about this decision ...

A.   22 July 2006: Yes i have been there too.I love my husband very much but never got the affection i needed and did what you are doing now. I had nothing more than sex with the other man and it was great while it lasted. The only thing is that you will get a taste ... (read in full...)

Im really confused, hes always teasing me sometimes I like him sometimes I dont!

Q.   right theres this guy and he like teases me all the time and i don't think i like him but in a way i do, i know i feel something for him and i don't know what or why and its really confusing and he like teases me for no reason and its reali annoying ...

A.   22 July 2006: The boy likes you more than you realise.Showing off by being mean to you is a classic sign of him having a crush on you. Its the only way he can get your attention without looking stupid in front of his mates.If you ever get the chance to talk to ... (read in full...)

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