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anonymous
writes: Im confused about some feelings Iam having. Im a completely 100 percent straight heterosexual female. I have never been attracted to women. I love men. I have had many boyfriends, a few sexual partners, and i have even been engaged before. I never had to question my sexuality. However, I been having some confusing feelings toward a girl lately. I have been friends with this girl from college for s few months and i feel a very strong physical attraction to her. I know it is normal for women to think other women are attractive but this is beyond that. Iam not in love with her but Iam physically and sexually attracted to her. I get really turned on looking at her body. The thought of having sex with her appeals to me and ive even had fantasies about it. If she wanted to have sex with me i would not turn her down. Why am I feeling this way? I know in my heart Iam a straight woman. Iam almost 21 years old and i full well know my sexuality. Iam just confused as to why I feel this way towards this girl. Is this normal? Could somebody help me please?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (16 November 2007):
 Well, I think you are completely normal. there's nothing wrong with you... so you've found someone that you're attracted to. This doesn't make you a lesbian... perhaps a little bisexual (and that's pretty cool, you get the best of BOTH worlds!), but not a lesbian.
I'd say if you feel the urge, don't fight it. If you get the opportunity to kiss her (or whatever) go for it and see if you're still into it. Perhaps you're just having a super intricate fantasy, but once you actually experience it, it will lose its luster.
There's nothing wrong with having a hot fantasy life -- even if it stretches beyond the norm for your usual desires. Pushing the envelope is what makes our sex lives so exciting. There's nothing WRONG with you, you are perfectly normal and everyone gets curious sometime.
In conclusion: you're straight, but not NARROW. And that, my friend, is really cool.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): I would say it is normal. All it is is temptation rearing his ugly head. If you are morally against homosexuality, then fight the temptation.
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