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writes:well me and my girlfried have been dating for a few months everything was great we would fool around all the time and in all places. we would be hangin all over each other all the time but then it just stopped. we also work together and now its just so weird. when one of us leaves there's no kiss, not even a hug. its just bye. iv tried everything to get something goin. iv tried every romantic thing i can think of. i just dont know what 2 do 2 get things back 2 normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): One word-Communication. :) Have you both tried talking about this? Can you not sit down and calmly, maturely ask her how she feels about where this relationship is heading. One of the greatest building blocks of a good quality relationship is talking problems over and finding ways, together on how to manage and problem solve challenges.. Talking and opening up the channels will keep you both connected. You may find she has some of the same concerns. Try it and then keep us posted on how you do. Good luck.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Eventually passion gives way to love in a relationship and I think love is, in part, what you describe... being comfortable enough not to need to constant reassurance of hugs and kisses to get you through the day because your love doesn't need to be shown to exist. However if you don't feel like you love your girlfriend it might be that the relationship has just run its course.
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