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writes:I'm sorry if it's too long, I just think it's better more than less:) I have been meeting a guy quite a long time we first met for about a year ago just to have sex and rarely talked together, but now we are starting to meet more and for other purposes, and talk a lot together. I have always been very fond of him! He is a little older than me and no one knows about us, except his best friend and my best friend. We don't want to been seen together in public but it's starting to happen more often now because we train together. But when we are training we pretend we don't know each other but we still talk hehe. He has sometimes said that he likes me very much and we spoke about it neither of us was dating another I feel so safe and good when I'm around him, and he says sweet things to me, but when he says them I never know what to say haha because I'm not so used to compliments all the time. I want to be with him as a girlfriend, but I have not the guts to start talking about it with him .. do not know in what situations and what to say to him! I'm also pretty scared of rejection hehe but i can get through that if it happens ... I do not want to be meeting him if this is the meaningless on his behalf. But I know it isn't, he said to me: I'm always starting to like you more and more.He also called me his girlfriend when he was drunk haha:)Is there any advice from you my darling ???:) about what I could say or do to start talking about this relationship thing with him... I'm not good at talking about feelings and things like that..
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (30 January 2011):
Well, you said you were afraid of talking about this with him. If you are going to talk to him, actually. I would recommend you to tell him the whole true. That's the best thing you can do. Even when no success is warranted before hand. Since you are in a free-relationship he may be not willing to change that. But you have to play with these rules.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOMG haha, what the hell do ya mean?
My question is: WHAT SHOULD I SAY ?
I am going to talk about it , i just dont know how! thats what im asking for hahah not asking if i should talk about it :)
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (29 January 2011):
May be, if you are unable to talk to him about it, you shouldn't be his girlfriend. I mean, at this point, talking is the only way your relationship can change from sex to a real relationship. The fact that you can't talk to him may be a reason for that relationship failure.
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reader, desta101  +, writes (29 January 2011):
i dont really no if this is much help to you but. there was a guy at skool and we strated seeing each other meeting up every weekend at his house. he made me feel on top of the world. We spoke heaps together. i was really starting to fall for him but i didnt no if he wanted the same thing. I told one of my friends and she told him. i just wanted to kill her. My ex invited me to his house and we ended up sleeping together and the guy i was seeing found out. He rang me the next day and said he dose not like me the way i like him. We stopped talking and seeing each other. I was heart broken. About two months ago he rang me and told me he really liked me. I regreted it so much, sleeping with my ex. I wish i could had turned back time and opened my mouth and spoke to him about it.. If this guy means alot to you please just talk to him about it before its to late and you lose like i did.
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