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Don't want to hurt him... but I like someone else!

Q.   What should I do? I have a really awesome (most of the time) boyfriend (lets call him Rob), and recently I've been thinkin that maybe I like someone else (lets call him Fred). And I think because of Fred I got over Rob. I don't want to hurt Rob, but ...

A.   29 January 2011: I think firstly you need to have a massive think how much *Rob means to you. Also you break up with Rob and fred dose not want any thing to do with you in that way then you mite had ruined some thing really special with rob. you might be just fall... (read in full...)

Is this really just part of my cycle?

Q.   hii.. just a lil question im just needing s few opinions from the outer world to compare with mums answer but ok ill jsut tell u lol.. its part of beeing a teenage girl -at 16- according to mum; whenever i go to the toilet i always find some sor...

A.   29 January 2011: yeah, it is part of ur menstrual cycle. the fun of being a girl... (read in full...)

The guy I like! Please answer this for me!!:)

Q.   I'm sorry if it's too long, I just think it's better more than less:) I have been meeting a guy quite a long time we first met for about a year ago just to have sex and rarely talked together, but now we are starting to meet more and for ot...

A.   29 January 2011: i dont really no if this is much help to you but. there was a guy at skool and we strated seeing each other meeting up every weekend at his house. he made me feel on top of the world. We spoke heaps together. i was really starting to fall for him ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....

Q.   Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...

A.   28 January 2011: Wow that was long lol. i think you have a really good head on ur shoulders. i can only imagine how hard it must had been for you to go through with it all. You need a metal for putting up with every thing she had thrown at you and all the forgivness ... (read in full...)

Does it matter that I'm black?

Q.   I'm 14 and on the ending stretch of my 8th grade year. I really like this girl and she is really nice to me and I Am nice back. I was thinking about asking her out but I'm black and she's white. I don't have a problem with white people all of my ...

A.   28 January 2011: If she dose not say yes and i was a few years younger i would say YESSS. If she is a real person it wats in the in side not the out side or colours.... (read in full...)

She wants space to explore and then come back to me

Q.   Ok guys heres the deal ive been with the same girl for over six years. I love her more than anything and we have been engaged for 6 months. We got together young she was 14 and i was 17 and until recently i was the only person she had ever been ...

A.   28 January 2011: im sorry but if ur in it ur in it. you are going to be getting married, thats a massive step. the fact that she has done it three times is just wrong and unforgive able. once is a misstake third time well yeah. my partner has cheated on me once and ... (read in full...)

Will I ever stop loving my ex?

Q.   I'm 19 now but when i was 15 i started seeing a boy, he was a year older than me but i loved him with all of my heart, he made me so happy, he constantly told me how much he loved me, that i was beautiful and special and he never wanted to lose me, ...

A.   28 January 2011: I really feel for you hun, i went through the same thing. Its really hard but you will get over him.. i was with a guy just like ur ex, and now im the same he cant really show his feelings. It was the harest thing i have ever done, but i love the... (read in full...)

I cheated and my boyfriend ended things

Q.   Hello, right now i feel like shit,i have been a bit bad and cheated the odd time. Its lead to break up after break up,he wont let it drop. I have never admitted it as he will end it,i know he wont come back if i do. He turned off his phone last ...

A.   27 January 2011: Firstly cheating is so wrong on so many levels. if you ddont have a honest realationship then wat in the world can u make of it. If some one has ever cheated on you then u no how it feels if u havent well just imagaine some one touching ur bf and ... (read in full...)

How can we stop fighting and get back to how we used to be?

Q.   My partner and i have been together for 2 and half years. things were great at the start but as life gose on a few problems come with it. Laterly all we seem to be doing is fighting. We have spoke many times about whats going on and end the end we ...

A.   27 January 2011: Thanks alot for ur answers. i have tryed a few of those thing and it kills me but i do try. His one of those guys that just dose thing with out talking to me about it. If he dose ask for my opion and he dose not like the answer he just dose it any ... (read in full...)

How can a relationship be so one sided?

Q.   Hi. I won't bore you with the details but why is it that relationships can be so one sided. I f my partner and i have an argument for whatever reason and some can be huge arguments on the verge of splitting up, Im always the one to try make amends. ...

A.   27 January 2011: Im sort of in the same boat. My bf is Very head strong. he has gone a week with out talking to me about wat happened. that killed me. once when i left i told him how i really felt and just before i left i said sorry you dont give a shit i will ... (read in full...)

Does my ex want to get back together?

Q.   so my boyfriend and i broke up 7 days ago because he wasnt happy, we are going to have a baby and we both are 18. we hadnt seen eachother in 8 days because i didn't wont to see him. he still texts me everyday and ask how im doing well last night he...

A.   27 January 2011: Have you tryed speaking to him, about why his doing this! It might had really hit him that his going to be a father. I would just lay it all out on the table and say hey look i dont no wat ur doing one min ur saying ur not happy in this and the next ... (read in full...)

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