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The guy flirts, then ignore me, then acts shy around me, what is going on?

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Question - (22 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy has been flirting with me and hes ignored me for 5 days. what does it means? but he talked to me today and he looked kind of shy when he was speaking.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007):

im 14. and i have theese problem's with my gf but i dont ignore her. but i am shy around her somtimes. i rilly rilly rilly like this girl and i know she like's me the same way. i think that he is just a little nervous. i have been with my gf for 4 month's and im still nervous as hell somtimes. her look's are part of it i think. she is very good looking and i think that may be part of you'r bf's problem. he is nervouse and maybe even a 'lil' scared. keep working at it. and it should get better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007):

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I think he acted shy around you because he has feelings for you hun. If he hasent bugged you for a while maybe he is taking a break or is waiting for you to respond. It doesn't mean anything. I totally think he likes you! good luck!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (22 December 2007):

kenny agony auntIf he is doing alot of flirting with you and you are not reciprocating any of it then ultimately he is going to become despondant and go the other way. He thinks you are not interested so then goes from one extreme to the other which is effectively ignoring you, and being shy around you. Let him know you like him and return some flirtatious gestures, it will soon build his confidence back up again.

Good luck & merry Christmas x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007):

Perhaps he's just confused and doesn't really know how to act around you so he has tried behaving in a number of different ways.

How did you react to the first of his tactics? Perhaps he thought that you weren't noticing him so he decided to ignore you to see if you would notice that he wasn't around you anymore.

Looking shy or embarressed is one sign that a guy might fancy you.

Go with the flow, be nice and friendly to him and see what happend next!! x x x

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