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writes:I have a friend that I've been liking for a few months now and she just recently broke up w/ her bf 2 weeks ago. Now I know not to rush her, but I'm confused, b/c I know she is attracted to me and she flirts w/ me a few times back in school but even when we dont see each other b/c shes 3 hours away, we talk on the phone for hours!The problem is, her best friend told me she said that she has a hint that I am interested in her and also said she is not ready for a relationship...HOW should I approach this???
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Well that doresn't change my advise. Just take things slowly. Stay friendly, when she is ready, she will let you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, to make this clearer lets just say the girl I like is named Karen and the friend is Lisa. Now, Lisa is kinda in between all of this and talks to us both, she knows my secret but hasnt told Karen. Karen on the other hand tells Lisa of her speculations; that "I" have an interest in her. Karen doesnt tell me those things that she told Lisa.
n btw Lisa is happy with her boyfriend so i highly doubt she is jealous.
Now, Im confused is b/c even tho I know or may have a clue that Karen is attracted to me I just didnt know how to approach the matter when Lisa told me one night Karent told her Karent didnt want to have a relationship...my point n question is how do I approach this matter when the girl I like, who most likely would like me back, decides she doesnt want a relationship now. sorry for the confusion.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 You wanna date whom: her or her best friend?
Maybe her best friend is just jealous here.
"I'm confused, b/c I know she is attracted to me and she flirts w/ me... we talk on the phone for hours"
No, I don't understand why you are confused in this situation.
These are NOT her words: "she is not ready for a relationship"
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 June 2007):
Stay friendly and have fun, if she is interested and is ready she'll let you know. Right now just have fun with no pressure.
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