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Why does she act so weird around me?

Q.   ok, Pretty straightforward. There's a girl in one of my classes and I really like her. Problem is, I'm gay and she has a boyfriend. That suprised me, I was dead certain she was gay. The way she walks, talks, sits, dresses, speaks, her non-...

A.   11 December 2009: Well, bit of a change in situation..... Firstly, recently we talk a lot more, get on better, and I don't feel like she hates me anymore. secondly, tonight our class went out for a meal and she said pretty causally that she was bisexual. NOw... (read in full...)

Is this girl in my class gay or not? I'm clueless...

Q.   So heres a fairly normal situation for once. I just started college, there's a girl I like in one of my classes. REALLY like. Problem, is she gay or not? skip the intro/context if you want .........................

A.   25 September 2009: thanks for the advice, but c'mon really, what would you do if someone asked you if you were gay? no, if someone who you think might be gay asked you that and you're straight. Maybe you'd be cool with that. But most people aren't. it really is ... (read in full...)

So am I bi or gay...?

Q.   Hi I am a girl who needs help to figure things out for herself. I am not sure if I am gay or bi, can you give me your opinion on how it sounds? Sexually I am attracted more to women and I find the sex better with women. I find people of both ...

A.   10 June 2009: I feel exactly, EXACTLY the same way. but yesterday I saw a film called lost and delirious, and I realised it doesn't really matter. PAULIE: Lesbian!? You think I'm a Lesbian?! MARY: Well you're a girl in love with a girl aren't you? PAULIE... (read in full...)

Not sure what to think

Q.   I started seeing a guy about 5 months ago. He is 49 and I am 42. After about 4 months of dating, we decided to move in together. We really seem to communicate and get along very well. We have alot of fun together.Our sex life is very good. The ot...

A.   25 February 2009: End it? why? If he was bi it wouldn't mean he's was going to leave you for another man. And look at the facts. He only did it twice, to experiment. It was over a year ago. He didn't like it. He's not proud of it. Why on earth do you think he'... (read in full...)

How can I kiss him and make it look real?

Q.   I have never kissed a guy and I am 13. My school is preforming a play and I got a lead and my character and another character have to kiss. I wasn't nervous at all but when I found out who I was supposed to do the kiss with I wasn't nervous b...

A.   25 February 2009: I'll back you up to some extent maddierose. I agree that it's always going to look fake for 4 reasons, firstly, because you are 13, and he is younger still. He sounds like an immature pig. You've never kissed anyone before. And kissing someone ... (read in full...)

My fiance won't let my friend come to our wedding because shes a lesbian.

Q.   My fiance won't let my friend come to our wedding because shes a lesbian. She says The Dike (that's what she calls her when my friend isn't around) will eye up all the bridesmaids and also she doesn't want her to come because there going to be a lot ...

A.   25 February 2009: A lot of the replies here are quite critical of you wife, and rightly so, considering her homophobia. But at the end of the day, YOU are the one who's marrying her, so remind yourself why. While this is a terrible flaw, she must have some good ... (read in full...)

Troubled by feelings for a younger girl and my older teacher...

Q.   Basically, Theres a girl a couple of years younger than me who likes me. She is openly gay, everyone knows she likes me. I, on the other hand am a coward, I see the way they shun her and I just don't want that to happen to me. She's in isolation ...

A.   12 February 2009: She was getting changed to do some exercises or something. She could have gone behind her desk, to the back of the room, or 10m away to the loo to get changed but she didn't. But for the past two weeks, she's got changed behind the door, whe... (read in full...)

Tell me if I have something with the teacher who isn't allowed to talk to me anymore...

Q.   I'm 16 years old and I'm a junior in high school. In freshman year, my history teacher was pregnant so from March to June, we had a substitute teacher. When i first saw him, i didn't think much of him, but i knew there was something different about ...

A.   18 November 2008: I know how you feel, I'm 16, in love with a maried teacher who has kids, so don't let anyone tell you you're too young to have these feelings for him, or that getting over it is simple and painless. ok, I think he does have some feelings for you... (read in full...)

Is there any good advice for my difficult situation?

Q.   I have decided I want to move out and leave my husband. After 20 years, I can't take it anymore. This is so tragic. I never believed that I couldn't save this marriage. I worked very hard to fix things, but he is passive, I can't do it alone. I...

A.   12 November 2008: Does he know you're thinking of leaving? I'd tell him you're seriously considering divorce, hopefully this will be a final wake up call for him, and the two of you may find that the reason the marriage has deteriorated is because there's hardly any ... (read in full...)

He is nice to everyone else, but acts like a jerk towards me. Why?

Q.   There is this one guy that acts strange around me. He talks to my friends and not to me. My friends add him as a friend on Facebook, and he accepts them, but when I add him, he ignores me. (he does not even know my friends). He is nice to everyone ...

A.   12 November 2008: He's probably acting like a jerk because he is a Jerk. either that or it's the classic Love = Hate equation...... I'd confront him about this. Maybe you'll get your answer.... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my teacher is definitely a lesbian?

Q.   Hi I know this is a really common problem but this goes so much further. This may be long but I would really appreciate some answers :-). I'm in love with my art teacher, she's the same sex as me!!! I'm only 14 though but I look and act so much old...

A.   12 November 2008: I was (and still am) in the same position as you. I'm 16 and have had feelings for one of my teachers for nearly 4 years now. When I first realised I was attracted to her, it was nothing more than a crush, I got over it, but then as I got older I ... (read in full...)

I'm sick of my life ever since I told people I'm gay.

Q.   Okay-This doesn't have much to do with relationships like love or anything... I just need help Ever since people found out that I was a lesbian I've felt completely left out of everything surrounding me. I feel so alone and hated. My best friend a...

A.   10 September 2008: Coming out is a brave, mature decision, so good for you. It takes a lot of guts to do that. by the way you describe your life and the people around you, that's the reason I don't tell people I'm bisexual. I'm a coward, and I've seen this problem ... (read in full...)

I have a serious problem with a group of friends...what should I do about it all??

Q.   Ok, briefly this is the situation, Theres this girl a year younger than me, she has no friends, everybody hates her, But She is really nice to me. And here is the problem........ Recently I seem to be getting on well with my friend(X)'s frie...

A.   27 June 2008: Looking at it, You're right, no issues, it is complicated. but A B and C are a bit out of my league on a regular basis :) well I'm back now. Suprisingly the fun evening was...fun. I spent like 5 minutes on the stall and the rest of the time I w... (read in full...)

How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?

Q.   How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...

A.   24 June 2008: You wanted aswers so here they are.........troll food 1. tell her your brother injured vital parts in a knife throwing act and he asked you to sub for him 2. if she's stupid, tell her you ARE your brother. 3. disguise yourself as your br... (read in full...)

My past experiences of schoolgirl/teacher crushes...

Q.   This isn't a question as such. I was perusing a few of the messages people have left about liking, fancying, loving, having or wanting a relationship with their teachers. Can i just say,(as one who had crushes on 2 of my teachers, one all througho...

A.   24 June 2008: Thanks, a part of me doesn't want to admit it (the same part that doesn't want to get over this) but this really helped me see things differently. But most of all that last bit. he/she won't leave their spouse or children for you, and if he/s... (read in full...)

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