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female
age
30-35,
*azzie
writes:I met this guy at my job about four months ago. I decided to give it a try. He's about 6 years older than me so I thought everything would be ok as far as maturity and a relationship. We would always go places on the weekends and talk on the phone. All of a sudden, that stopped. When I asked him what was wrong, his reply would be work and school. He told me he wanted to see me on my next off day. But shortly after that, he sent me a text saying he couldn't see me anymore and he was sorry. I asked why, but never got a reply. I don't understand how somebody could just do something like that. I want to tell him how I feel, but it's like I'm speechless. Any help? Thanks in advance.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Yes. What's the point?
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reader, jazzie +, writes (31 January 2011):
jazzie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEven if I wanna tell him that I think he was wrong for what he did?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (29 January 2011):
Don't bother, there's no use in chasing after someone that just isn't interested. Assume something came up or someone else came along and move on, find someone new. These things happen, the worst thing to do is dwell on it.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (29 January 2011):
Here is my help. Do not say anything back at all! Do not even mention it to him. When you see him smile and say hi and keep it moving. Let his actions sit with him. One of two things will happen, he will miss you and contact you or he wont. If he doesn't he really just is over it. There is nothing worse then a woman contacting a man after he was so rude and inconsiderate. He does not deserve it.
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