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writes:I've been having issues with my husband of 2years. I've been sleeping in another room for the last 3 nights. The maid had to work early today so i moved back into the bedroom i played on the computer for a bit being tired i went into our bed he just slept like all well. When he woke up he tried kissing me and i refused. I'm tired of being hurt by him. Is it wrong to try and not love him?
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reader, sam44  +, writes (29 January 2011):
Its not wrong, you want him to change his behavior, but you also need to make it clear why you are acting like that... or else he might think you are seeing someone else. Communicate your problem first so he's know whats wrong. goodluck
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (29 January 2011):
 Avoiding issues wont make them go away. It might seem easier but sooner or later the issues re-surface with more avengance. Communciation is the only way people can move forward. It's imperative to sit somewhere non threatning with your husband and communciate how disappointed you are, how hurt your feeling so he understands the full scope. Perhaps even write a letter then read it to him or post it to him.Until understanding, forgiveness and exceptance of actions that cannot be undone is felt with the heart,then everything will remain the same and worsen as each day passes.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (29 January 2011):
How is he hurting you? Can you elaborate. I think what you are doing is a natural reaction. You are guarding your self and becoming to numb to to his actions.
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