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*rans Am Man
writes:Well I really don't know what to do. I kinda like two different girls, I say like because I'm not in love with either one of them and I don't believe in saying it until you mean it. Anyway the first one is Trish, she's beautiful, she's funny, she's... well she's a lot of things. I've known her my whole life (or at least her whole life) she's one of my best friends in the whole world. Her brother, cousin, and I hang out together all the time, every weekend we go to the mall and then back to their grandmother's house and we stay all weekend there. I guess it just happened from spending so much time together. The problem is, I can't tell her. two summers ago i told her how i felt and it completely changed things. We're just now getting to be back the way we were and that's only because she doesn't know that I like her now.The other girl is Paula, she too is beautiful. She's great, she likes to laugh a lot, she likes to have fun, she's unique in her own way. I've known her for about two years. You see I used to date her sister when we were younger, but that's ancient history. The problem here is... Laurinda broke up with me 6 months ago. We dated for about 7 months and then she decided to end it. When I was with her I was happy. I went to her house every Saturday and pretty much just hung out. Sometimes we would watch movies and other times we would just sit outside under the stars and talk. We would always go on long walks around the neighborhood and then grab something to eat. I still talk to her at school and I know she would say yes if I asked her out again. Her friends are all kinda hinting around that she likes me. I'm just not sure what to do.*Edited (3/5/2010) 12:24AM-EST*[Real names edited for privacy reasons]
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (5 March 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok let me clear something up. The way the people at Dear Cupid edited this is just stupid. The first girls name is Carly the other is Laurinda. The relationship i'm talking about at the bottom was with Laurinda, not her sister.
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reader, brigid.imagine  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 First, be very careful how you handle anything with Trish, if she is your best friend, you don't want to risk your friendship by either not telling her you like her, or telling her you like her. Unfortunately i don't know her so i can't predict her reaction to either of these. As for Paula, i would say don't go there after dating her sister. It would make things awkward for everyone involved.
But in the end of the day it's up to you, you said you don't love either of them, so you won't be heartbroken.
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