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writes:I have been involved with a man whom I have been with for several years. It seems as if he is changing, he use to be a marine, and I am wondering if something is wrong with him psychological, he is determined that what he says is it and no matter how he may be wrong, he has already made up in his head that he is right. He no longer takes in consideration my feelings towards a matter, or even let me speak on a matter, especially when he is acusing me of something, he doesnt even want proof that he would be wrong. I do love him, but I don't know if I can take it anymore. He won't give me any straight answers, when I try to talk to him, he just says I am full of drama and that I am acting childish and he is tired of it. But all I be doing is trying to talk to him about us, and it seems non existant, and he just cuts me off, say what he want to say and I am left feeling miserable, because there are things that I need to get off my chest. He is always acusing me of doing things, but I have been nothing but faithful to him, I don't even think about no other man. I go to work and I come home all of my activities are with him.I JUST DON'T KNOW IF i SHOULD STAY OR WALK AWAY, BECAUSE I love him, but he never lets me talk about my feelings, and I don't have friends to talk to because he had convinced me that i don't have any friends, because they were never there for me, but they were never there mainly because they didnt like him. Everytime I try to talk to him about how I am feeling, he tells me I am a drama queen, and he doesn't want to hear anything I have to say. Can someone please help me open my eyes to what is wrong, or share some opinions or suggestions. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question
Thank you aLMASDP, I really appreciate your insite on the matter. And I agree with you. I didn't think it was abusive behavior , but now I see it is. I found out that they also give marines alot of different medicines to make them think differently. I didnt understand at first, when he use to tell me that the marine taught him to not to be emotional, but to see things different from everyone else. So he will never be able to understand me or my feelings. I guess that explains why he has been married three times, but I will not be number four.
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