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writes: Dear Cupid, I've been talking to my crush (Timber) on the Internet for about four months now. He's sweet, funny, and absolutely everything I ever thought he would be. We talk almost every day for long amounts of time-just finding out about each other. Our conversations have actually gotten to be more than just "Hey, what's up?" and stuff like that. They actually have...meaning. There's just one problem. Sometimes when I'm talking to him, I just, like, totally freeze up and I can't think of anything to say to him...especially when we talk on the phone or in person. I guess it's because I just never talk to guys. Well, I talk to my guy friends, but that's not the same as talking to him. I have deeper feelings for him than any of my other guy friends. If you could give me any tips on, like, what to say to him and stuff, I'd really appreciate it.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Remember, your crush is still a person. he is no different then other guys. only thing is you like him more then other guys! Act like he is another one of your friends. RELAX! maybe ask your friends to act like him so you can practice talking to him. Write a note to him and give it to him if you are not exactly comfortable talking to him yet. that always works for me and my friends. THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU IS to become one of his really good friends then he will get to know you more and grow to love your wonderful personality!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006): Well you shouldn't stress its perfectly normal for you to become speechless and get nervous.What you can do about it is not to worry so much.You are to worried about what will happen if there's a moment of silence and what YOU are doing wrong, but let me tell you that he's feeling the exact same thing and you aren't doing anything wrong.So just sit back and relax when you chat with him because then you will see that those "freeze up" moments won't happen any more.Good Luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2005): well hunnipops you could tell him exactly how you feel and ask if he can move to your country! or you could have a long-distance relationship!hope this helpsxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2005): well hunnipops you could tell him exactly how you feel and ask if he can move to your country! or you could have a long-distance relationship!hope this helpsxox
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (26 October 2005):
When you're with him, just forget that you like him and imagine him as one of your guy friends. Don't let the conversation get to a point where the question "Who do fancy?" and stuff like that come up. When you're ready, you'll be able to talk to him about anything with ease. Good Luck!!!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (26 October 2005):
 I think what you need to do is pretend that he is only a friend and try to relax when you're talking to him. This is easier said than done, I know. It is easier to talk on the net than on the phone or in person because your voice reveals a little of how you feel and your expressions too.
You are suffering from shyness and I think you just need to tell him this. Explain how you feel awkward and want to be your normal self with him but that you are having a few problems doing so. At least this way he will be aware that your silences aren't indicative of you not liking him but more so than you like him very much.
This could break the ice a bit and allow him to reassure you that it doesn't matter and to take your time.
As time passes, you will find it easier to open up to him as your confidence builds. All you need to do is let him know how you are feeling right now.
I hope this helps.
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