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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone! I am a 20 year old female college student. I seem to have developed a crush over one of my new friends here at school. I was introduced to him by my best guy friend at the beginning of the semester. The moment I saw him, I felt warm on the inside and had an instant attraction to him.We've known each other for about two months now and have hung out quite a bit, however, it has pretty much always been around campus. I feel like I am getting mixed feelings from him and I can't seem to tell if he likes me as well or not. All-in-all, he is an adorable and funny guy with a great taste in music. I tend to feel really happy when he is around and awful chatty, which is odd because I am generally a shy person.I want to tell him that I like him, and I know this seems childish, but I am afraid as to what his response will be. If he doesn't like me like that, I would want to stay friends at least because he is definitely a great all around guy. Like mentioned about, I am unsure about how he feels about me. At times he seems pretty flirty and at other times I feel like I am annoying him in ways, though I could just be paranoid.Any advice about how to deal with my issue is appreciated. Please keep all the comments nice and clean. Also, please remember that I am a college student, not some high schooler. Lastly, I am looking for a lasting relationship, not to get laid.Thanks!
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reader, charlotte19  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 You will never know how feels unless you ask him. Your not a mind reader. If your too shy to ask him directly drop a few hints, ask him if he wants to hang out outside of campus therefore not directly asking him out on a date but signaling that you enojoy his company and want to know him on a more personal level rather than just hanging out on campus all the time. Do something different with your hair or make-up next time you know your going to bump into him. he may just be seeing you as a friend at the moment, do something different too make him notice you.
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