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writes: I am completely unable to read signals. I am blind to any signals a girl gives whether she likes me or not. I keep falling for girls who are just trying to be friendly, and keep missing those who actually like me. I just can't see it. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2005): I broke up with my biyfrined over a week ago and after I told him we could just be friends he said ok and that he's fine with that because I need to get my grades in school up and he told me he understands,but after that night that I broke up with him he nver spoke to me again,what does that mean?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (26 August 2005):
 The ones that you have found out who actually like you, why don't you ask them out?
Body language sometimes can speak volumes. Girls tend to flick back their hair and glance at you kind of surreptiously when they like you. They may act shy when they talk to you which will then need you to encourage them by asking them about themselves.
Talk to different girls and study (subtly) their different reactions. Some may boldly talk to you (though that doesn't necessarily mean to say they don't fancy you... it's very confusing!) Others may talk to you but frequently avert their eyes. (This could mean they like you but it could also mean they are looking for someone else... not much hope is there?)
Why not base it a little more on how you feel? If you like a girl more than a friemd, strike up a conversation with her, ask her about her interests and suggest doing something together one day. It could be the best way around trying to work out if a girl likes you or not-just get in there first and bite the bullet!
Good luck.
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reader, Gordon +, writes (26 August 2005):
There are two things you can do. The first, is use the internet. There's a lot of websites around that tell you what signals to look out for. A lot of them aren't things that you would assume are signs.
The second thing is talk to the girl/s more. If a girl likes you, she'll want to spend more time with you. If you don't suggest anything, then she will.
It's also worth remembering that every girl is different. No matter what advice you receive, you should only use it as a guide and not a law.
Good luck!
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reader, pops +, writes (26 August 2005):
Talk to them. Don't rely on your obviously unreliable system of reading signals. Girls are not machines. YOu can't read them like you read a computer. Talk to girls with whom you have interests in common. Let them find out about you, and you take the time to find out about them. Do things together, first, with your common interests, and then new things. The better you know them, the better you will be able to understand if you really are the one for them, or just another friend.
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