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writes: I am 22 years old. Have just finished uni and waiting to get into the army. I am confident in most aspects of my life but when it comes to girls I am a no hoper. I normally fall for girls after I have already made friends with them, by which time they are either not interested, or have found someone else. It could be up to 2 months of really fancying them before I actually ask them. This has happened no less than 7 times in the last year. I don't like clubbing, etc, and I find the idea of walking up to a random girl very sleazy. What can I do to get a girlfriend... I have a lot of love to give, but nobody to give it to.
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reader, pops +, writes (26 August 2005):
Don't focus on one girl at a time. Meet and date lots of girls. Sometimes when you show a girl that you are interested in her, she takes you for granted, and looks for a new challenge. At your age, you shouldn't expect women to be looking for Mr. Right. They are young, too, and want to experience life as much as you do. Settling down with one man is something that can wait.
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