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Some days he's interested, some days he's not!

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Question - (6 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

heres a long story short iv met this boy and he seem intrested some days but then does bother for weeks am i wasting my time or try and make him intrested ??

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (6 October 2010):

xanthic agony auntDon't bother. Find someone that shows interest all the time, not only when it's convenient.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010):

First off, If this guy was interested like you seem to want him to be, he would be interested all the time not just some of the time.

This “being interested sometimes and then not interested other times” is a MESS! And it never ends well, because instead of the relationship being 50-50, it’ll end up being one sided. And believe me, you don’t want that – In fact, it’s that same one sided feeling that got you to writing to me in the first place, lady.

So to answer your Q, You are wasting your time! When this guy is good and ready, he knows where to find you. Let’s hope by then it won’t be too late!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (6 October 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI agree, most definitely wasting your precious time.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (6 October 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Interested some days then does not bother for WEEKS ?...

Definitely wasting your time.

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