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anonymous
writes:i keep slipping out during sex or when g/f is on top she carnt really move up and down as out he pops despite her being tight.when we start im ok pushing into her but when i pull back thats when the problem starts I have just over 5 inches and my girlfriend has only ever sleeped with me so it does feel snug down there. Can see her frustration, keep fthinking that she would love to bounce up and down on a big pole Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): I always find my guy slips out when I'm on top. He's 6 or 7 inches so it's not a size problem (size really doesn't make much of a difference). The problem is it's hard for us to judge the movement when we're on top, probably takes a lot of practice or something. But I've found if we're lying on a lounge and I can have 1 leg on the ground then it works really well :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): 5 inches is ok just you need to be more skillful and if it slips out once in a while push it back.it is the same with all of us and don't think she needs a larger one if she hasn't said so.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (4 September 2009):
 try not coming out as much staying close to her body helps with this theres nothing wrong with you you just need to experiment
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 I agree with sexlessintheUK's remarks. Someone asked a similar question about this and other things before.Here is the answer I gave:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-pleasure-her.htmlLove making is more than just organ grinding. Its a whole-body experience. You need to devote time, patience and a great deal of love and attention to it.I assure you, if you lavish her with more than just one or two things, and make love to her and with her, any shortcomings will be overlooked entirely.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 Sexlessintheuk is absolutely right but I can't help feeling that a technique adjustment would help you as well, certainly as regards slipping out when she's on top.
It sounds as if your girlfriend is supporting her weight on her legs and moving herself up and down on you. Problem is that those leg muscles are built for gross motor movements rather than fine control movements and it is all too easy for her to slip off. You really don't need that much of an in and out movement - looks good in porn but doesn't achieve much in practice. Try instead to have her not take her weight on her legs but let her full weight come down on you and then you take charge of the up and down movements (i.e. bounce her up and down") using the muscles in your bum, your thighs and lower back - helps also if the mattress has a bit of bounce to it. This feels good to her because you're giving her a ride and she isn't tiring out her legs, you get a bit of workout and there is almost no danger of you slipping out because you're only going to get about 2 inches of "travel" (unless of course you are on a trampoline).
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