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*eccamega
writes:I really messed up. After being single a year I've been seeing someone I met online. From the start he said he wanted a relationship. Actions speak louder than words though. He said we would go out and do fun things. Yet he just seems to want me to sleep over. He wanted to rush things. He said he doesn't wait and waiting is dumb. Now I regret it. I feel used. I don't have a history of good relationships. He asked me o be exclusive, yet his profile is still up. He ditched me on the weekend coz he said he had work. I hought he had a 9-5 job though. He was also texting someone right in front me and I don't know who. What do I do?
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (8 May 2012):
I agree with the other poster about self forgiveness. Don't beat yourself up about this fling with a player. He should be ashamed of himself but you don't have to.
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reader, meccamega +, writes (8 May 2012):
meccamega is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really don't understand why he got angry at me for not telling him my whole life story. And that he can't read me. As I can't read him either.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 May 2012):
 Give him space to pursue you and see what he does. It does sound like too much, too soon. Tell him you will be exclusive when the profile comes down. Until then, don't promise anything. Go out and have a great time with your girlfriends and don't be so available.
Self-forgiveness is a great skill to have. It may be time to cultivate that particular one.
Good luck!
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reader, Crazy Fox  +, writes (7 May 2012):
 What you do is stay away from him and pretend non of it happened and just live your life and be happy that you saw his true self now, so u didn't waste ur time. Block him from everywhere and don't think about him. It was a bad dream, now you are awake.
All the best
Crazy Fox
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (7 May 2012):
 Hi,
I'm afraid you are gonna have to just mark this one up to experience. He is probably doing this a lot and probably texts and messages multiple girls. If you feel rushed then in future take this as you telling yourself to wait. Accept this as an experience, look upon it as some fun and pleasure and don't meet up or contact him anymore. Best wishes.
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