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writes:Sorry it may seem a bit long. But here it goes: Me and this guy have been best friends for a few years now, but we were also FWB's for a little over two years. About six months ago he stopped speaking to me out of the blue. No texts, no calls, and we even stopped speaking to each other at work. Well, 3 months ago he showed back up and expected things to be just peachy. I don't know why he left and when i asked him a few weeks ago he didn't give me a legit reason. It was a sorry excuse. He did have a girl that he was talking to while we were messing around, but they were never together as an official couple. He was in love with her, but always kept coming to me to be FEB's. Of course i wanted him to myself, but that never happened cause of the other girl. I am still really upset with him because we were really close and he hurt extremely bad when he walked out like he did six months ago. I don't know how to forgive him. I really want to be able to let go of how much he hurt me when he left like did. So, how can i forgive him?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Why do you want to go down the same road again OP? He hurt you, he left you groping in the dark for answers, he carried on with his life and now he's waltzed back into yours and expects everything to be the same.
This guy is COMPLETELY taking you for granted, because he knows about your feelings for him. You are like the fixed deposit for him which is always there to fall back upon. Dont make yourself so available for any guy OP. In any case, you are just FWBs' with him. There are no romantic feelings involved from his side; its just about sex.If you do forgive him and everything goes back to where it was, there is every possibility he might do this again.
Think about it.
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