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I'm a virgin and I want to get laid! Where can I find a girl?

Q.   I just turned 20 and I'm still a virgin. I desperately need a girl in and out of the bedroom especially in the bedroom. I live in Boston. I don't go to school and I'm too young to go to the clubs or bars. i don't really know anyone that ...

A.   22 February 2010: girls can usually tell when all you want is to fuck them, so try to calm down. trying yoga could be a good idea to meet someone, like you could ask a cute girl for her help, or you could offer to help her. but yoga seems a lil gay to me. you havent ... (read in full...)

Making out with my bf for the first time--just didn't feel right! Is this a bad sign?

Q.   I have been with this guy for 5 month and he is my first boyfriend and he was my first kiss but a few days ago he made out with me for the first time but it didnt feel right...is this just because it was my first time or am i scared...im really ...

A.   15 February 2010: women s intuition tells us alot. maybe you wernt completely ready to kiss him so deeply. was he making you uncomfortable? did u tell him& did he calm down and back off? if hes the reason it dont feel rite, &he dont listen to how ur feeling its ... (read in full...)

I spent Valentines Day spent alone while my bf preferred to be with his friends!! Advice?

Q.   well today is Valentines day. I've seen my boyfriend once before he has left the house for church. I didn't want him to leave this morninq but its church so i feel as thouqh i cant qet mad. My problem is that he's been home [the apt upstairs] for ...

A.   15 February 2010: you can do way better!! if he dont care about how you feel, then he isnt worth much. you need someone who will be there for you when you need him, and balance his friends. show yourself respect, and find someone good! goodluck:)... (read in full...)

I am really bugged by the fact that she's been with 3 other guys

Q.   I have been in a relationship with A for 3 months as a couple - 8 as a sort-of - and i've had troubling thoughts. She's has been with 3 guys before, sexually. I'm a wholesome guy, but I lost my virginity to her. Her last relationship lasted for 2 ...

A.   14 February 2010: it sounds like shes a lil hoe-ey. u can find someone good, who shares your wholesome views. if your worried she isnt feeling the same you are, and that she could cheat, she pry would. you should care about some one if your goin2 fuck them. i thin... (read in full...)

What's the deal with my friend?

Q.   One of my friends has large translate that as HUGE breasts. She pointed out to me that I have small breasts. I said,"So what?".She said to me,"You don't have to worry about them".Now she is going and talking behind my back to other guy friends of ...

A.   14 February 2010: does your friend have the big chest? i know it can suck to be really chesty. im a 34d, and sometimes i wish i was smaller b/c i ONLY attract the wrong guys. i never can meet a good guy who likes me4 me, instead of what i look like& what he thinks ... (read in full...)

How to get the girl?

Q.   Hi About 4 months ago I asked this girl i really liked to go out with me , she said yes :). but soon after she told me she didnt want to anymore even though she had told her freinds that she really liked me. We have started to connect again bu...

A.   14 February 2010: i dont think shes the girl for you. if you too didnt last too long the 1st time im not sure shes ready to be w/ you& be serious. i think if you2 got back together she might do the same thing... (read in full...)

We have been on and off for a year, ...should I go back to him again?

Q.   im thinking about going back with my ex bf, but he seems different then before...he's jealous. i have a best guy friend, and when ever i say hi to him my ex gets quiet and he asks if do i like my friend, or just makes the face. we have ben on and o...

A.   14 February 2010: thankyou.i realized my ex's new jealousy wasnt his way2 show me his love. a friend of ours (mostly mine) died last week, &i was telling my ex how i felt bad about the way I'd ben treating him (b/c he was the one telling my ex i had ben cheating on h... (read in full...)

Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my abortion?

Q.   i got pregnent with my ex last year and he ended it, i had an abortion and it just seemed he didnt want to bother and was not there for me, but now i have strong feelings for him again. Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my a...

A.   3 February 2010: i think its pry b/c you2 have ben thru so much. a abortion is a big deal! going thru that is big &hard, but if he didnt want2 even try then he dont sound like a good guy anyway. its understandable 4you 2be thinking about him again, but people dont ... (read in full...)

I hate to ask a cliche love question, but...

Q.   I met this boy about two years ago. We knew each other for about a month before we started going out. Out of everybody I've ever been with, I liked him the most. We went out for a while, before I broke up with him after a 'friend' told me that he ...

A.   3 February 2010: im sorry, but it sounds like he isnt over his gf. is it the same person he keeps getting back w/? when you are w/ someone who just broke up they r emotional, so its hard2 tell if they have love4 you or who they broke up w/. its hard2 tell if they ... (read in full...)

I am not sure if I am gay or bi, but I kissed my friend and now he wont talk to me.

Q.   Hi there, I'm a 15 year old boy going on 16. And ever since i was lil, I've always had a strange feeling for guys. And till today i still do, and it's getting stringer. And it came to me that i might be bi-sexual or gay. Anyway. I have never be...

A.   3 February 2010: im sorry your friend reacted that way. he was pry really surprised. my best friend growing up came &told me she was bi. it took me a min to take it all in, but i still loved her like a sis. i think if you give your friend some time then he will ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to play tit for tat games ignoring each other.?

Q.   Today i ignored my friend/crush because hes been really conceited and wont talk to me by text, email, or AIM. Me and my fiend were on the bus sitting across from one another and he sat behind my friend grace. Me and G played a no talking game and R ...

A.   3 February 2010: stop thinking/worrying bout him! if hes really in2 you then you will no...he will come2 you. hes pry tryin2 see how in2 him you are. just waite4 his txt, emails, & AIMs to flow in. if its not happening at 1st play like everything's still good when ... (read in full...)

Single for 4 years now it's starting to get to me...

Q.   ive been single for 4 years now and its really starting to get to me, all my friends are dating and going out on coulpes dates and im getting left behind. im also completly usless when it comes to asking girls out or giving hints that i like them...

A.   3 February 2010: aw dont focus on just that your single. im sure your a great person, so just be friendly to everyone. the more people yu get 2no, the more ppl you will get introduced2.just sit by someone who looks nice thats by their self, &dont think about who yu ... (read in full...)

My FWB is getting attached. How do I break it off without hurting him?

Q.   Me and my FWB (friend w/ bennifits) have reached an agreament, we both decided that FWB was all we wanted, but now he seems to be getting "emotionaly attached". I realy don't want to hurt his fealings but all I want is fun, how do I break it off ...

A.   3 February 2010: fwb is only great at 1st. if the guy is really sweet you need to tell him the truth as soon as you can. tell him he means alot2 you, but you arent ready to be with someone. maybe you have a sweet friend who is ready to be w/someone seriously & yu ... (read in full...)

Dating a different race...

Q.   Okay, so here's my problem. I'm 16 and have always been attracted to all races, it's never been an issue until recently. I'm white, and have become really close friends with this guy.. who's black, we're very flirty with each other. I like him and ...

A.   3 February 2010: im sorry you have this problem. my dad is actually like that too. my boyfriend is black and white. i have been with him on &off for over a year. i felt bad for keeping a secret like that from my dad, but i did finally have them meet. they both love ... (read in full...)

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