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writes:I'm 17 years old and I'm really shy. Although I have no problem making easily friends with girls I feel uncomfortable talking to guys. With this in mind...there's this guy that I'm interested in. I don't really talk to him but i'm almost sure he likes me. He constantly looks at me and he always manages to cross my path. We go to the same school and we take the train together everyday. Although he doesn't talk to me I catch him looking at me in the reflection on the window in the train daily. Everytime he hangs around with my friends I just freeze and am not myself.I don't know what to do. How do I overcome my shyness? is it even shyness? what do i do? why would this guy like me if he hasn't talked to me? aaaah i'm really confused. I havent told my friends about him because soemtimes i think it's just silly. please i need help! what should i do?
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reader, Bdog  +, writes (16 January 2009):
He could be shy about this as well, you wouldnt even know. He could be very confident with friends, both male and female, and not confident at all when it comes to romantic things like this. Thats what its like for me, and I think that you should try and talk to him, about anything, so that he feels he has an opening to try and get to talk to you more and get your attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): You have the same promblem as me! well the trick is too muster up enough courage to just say hi. well thats all i can do, i try and hold my crushes gaze but now he looks away.
My friend says he likes me but i dont think so.
Hope that helped ^_^ Maybe a little.
But im only a 13 year old so yeah...
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Just gather a little courage and smile at him. Look him in the eyes and hold the gaze. See what he does after that. He may look away, because it will possibly take him by surprise, but then after, he should gather up some courage to say hello to you. If he does, keep your courage high and give it a chance. The two of your can talk about anything, school, classes, the train ride, where you live . . . anything.
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