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writes: hi, im a 19 year old girl and i have being going out with my 27yr old boyfriend for two years. i look older for my age and am quite mature for my age so initially my boyfriend didnt see a problem with the age gap.me on the other hand, i did cos im paranoid about wat people think plus my boyfriend looks his age if not older! but iv stayed with him cos i really really love him so much. hes very good to me and wev been getn on really really well up until recently.i think wer fighting bcos hes getn too serious. hes told me hed love to marry me but i dont think im ready for a committment.im still in uni n i plan to travel and stuff so my question is am i holding him back and wasting his time?should he b wit someone who can 100% commit to him now? or am i wasting my own time?he could give me a comfortable life, but hes my first serious relationship. should i explore more? even if i dont want to see an end just yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): You are so young. Don't throw it away. If he wants you so bad he will wait. I got married at the age of 18 and regretted it, I missed so much of life. Get out there and enjoy the world there is a lot of it to see. Don't get married and tied down, next there will be kids and in 20 years you will turn around and wonder where it all went.
I wish you well but don't go down the marriage path yet.
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reader, thenabear +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Well kitten your right about one thing. You will no matter how mature you are hit an age when you wonder what you did with the last five years. then ten years and so on. If your wanting to explore differnt levels of love. Then you should go off. If it's just life your worried about missing then share your life with him. Its been done. If you love him really do love him. I want tell you your to young for that. Share your dreams with him. Tell him who you want to be and were you want to go. You never know he may want to go too. It is better to ask him and tell him than to just up and leave and look back with regret. That stuff ages women.
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