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writes:My daughter was in a relationship for 15 months. she is 15, him 17. they broke up over the summer, mainly due to him hearing rumors and believing his friends over her. At this time anyway, things were stale in the relationship. During the summer he found another girl, probably dated for 1 to 2 months. Long story short, my daughter and him ran into each other, started talking. both forgave each other. wanted to start over, but go slowly. he told the other girl from summer that it was over. they other night he was over, had just gone shopping with the summer fling...acted like it was no big deal, they are just friends.......my daughter is crushed, angry, doesn't know what to think.......what do you think? should she try to work it out, or move on. I told her to move on, but that's not the answer she wants......
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reader, IRDave  +, writes (10 October 2008):
 Of course that's not the answer she wants but I think you are totally right. She should move on, always forwards, never backwards.
Just from this he sounds wrong for her. If he doesn't think hanging around with a girl he has just supposed to of left is wrong then your daughter needs to do herself a favour and find someone worthy of her time.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (10 October 2008):
 If it was my 15 yr old daughter, I would tell her to move on, and no amount of strangers opinions would make any difference there. I believe my daughter deserves way better.
The guy is playing both of them by the sounds of it. No its not normal for a guy to go shopping with an ex they supposedly split with to get back with you.
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