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writes:hi,i've been going out with my guy for almost a year,it seems he doesn't care about me anymore.He doesn't call but when i call him, he talks to me in a harsh tone.i've now meet a new guy who has an interest me and wants to introduce me to his parents.should i wait for my bf to say is over before i take any step or what? or can it be that my guy stills love me cos i love him too and i've sat him down several times for us to talk about our relationship.pls help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): First off, you should confront him about the relationship. If a guy really wants to be with someone...he shows it in all that he does. But he's hardly showing anything but annoyounce. Ask him specifically if there is something he is keeping from you (i.e his feelings, etc). And if you feel its best, you should break it off with your boyfriend first. Why wait for him to do it? Tell him you feel like his not making and effort in the relationship. And that his lack of interest in you is not ok with you, and that someone else has taken an interest in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): Its a no win situation here I'm afraid! If you wait you could be waiting for ever and my lose this new guy. If your not happy with your boyf just be honest with him and tell him you've met some one else. Don't rush straight into a relationship with him tho. Take your time and give yourself time to get over the current boyf too.
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reader, laurens  +, writes (14 December 2007):
you should deffinatly wait to end one relationship before starting a new one.
1stly if you still love your guy then you are not ready to be starting anything new. if it is over between you 2 then you need to give yourself time to heal.
2ndly if this new guy really likes you its not fair on him to date him if you are not ready to. it will only end messily.
if you want your new relationship to stand a chance you must move on from your previous. this takes time.
so forget the new guy. and concentrate on your current relationship. is it working or is it time to end it.start there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): Hi
I think the best thing to do is to wait and fully break up with your guy before u enter into any other relationship, wait and official break up with ur guy b4 u enter into another, if not u can complicate issues for yourself, assuming u boy didn't break up with u and u start dating the other guy and ur bf gets to know about that, ur bf would even capitalize on that and try and make an issue out of that.
Sit him down, talk to him and let him tell u his plans whether he still wants to be in the relationship or not.
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