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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:She's a foreigner who's doing internship here, and will move back to her country next week. She's thinking about coming back here to work fulltime after finish her master, next year. We've known each other for maybe 2 months. We hanged out a lot and had lots of fun. I know for sure she really enjoys being with me, talking with me. She also totally trusts me (as she told me). And she knows I like her.We've never kissed or have sex but have light physical touchs when we are sitting together or crossing the streets which don't happen between normal friends. Overall everything would be great if she didnt have to move.When I told her I love her, yesterday. She became very shy and said "I don't know, I'm moving really soon" and silence for a minute. Then she told me she felt comfortable about it and agreed with me that we share a lot of common things, and if I write letters to her, she will write back (we both like writing) when she's away.I also told her I wanna quit my job (which is going really well and making good money) to move to her country to study to be with her (which is very hard and a little bit drama) if she wont come back for working, she said "just stay as you are blah blah". I think it's probably because I told her I have to help my family a lot, financially, so maybe she just doesnt want my life to be messed up.I didn't ask for more coz I know it would make she's uncomfortable coz she's very shy...One thing I would like to tell you is she's classic style and she considers 2 months is not a long time to start a relationship.Do you think that she likes me but doesn't want to move on because she's leaving soon? I really really love her, what should I do next to get her? Should I still find a way to move to her place or try to convince her to come back?Thank you for your advice!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 I agree with Deagan, I think she likes you yes maybe more as a friend than as a potential partner, she never responded when you told her you loved her, yet she agreed that she could deal with it, but she has made it clear she does not want you uprooting your life to be with her, yes she may be worried for you and your family, but also she simply does not want you moving to be with her. I think you need to accept what she is saying to you.
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 No, it would be best to let this one go. It would be an entirely different situation if you two were in a serious relationship and dating for a while. She keeps telling you it's not going to work, but you don't seem to be taking the hints. Sorry, buddy.
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