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writes:Ehhhh... I'm COMPLETLY stuck!!! I'm in love with my best friend!!!I don't know if he loves me back but either way I don't know if it would work. His mom hates ne and doesn't want me to hang out with me because she thinks I"m the reason he's sad when I'm the one that would always help him and she'd be the reason why he'd be sad.Ehhhh.. My question is: Should I try to find out what his feelings are to me?? OR should I just leave him alone??
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reader, jpred  +, writes (18 February 2008):
I've seen this happen loads, best friends are really close and sometimes that closeness can lead onto other things for both of the people or just one of the people. Your problem is, you know about yourself but not the other. Peoples instincts usually tell them if somebody else likes them and I'm sure you will probably have a vague idea. Don't make the mistake though of looking for hints he's dropping because you may read the signals wrong and convince yourself of something that isn't true. If your instincts tell you that he might like you and that you want to talk to him, go ahead and talk to him. If it doesn't feel right at all and he sees you only as a friend, you've got to think that talking to him could make your friendship awkward.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (18 February 2008):
 Yeah, try to find out what's going on. Sounds like you need closure. Just watch out and if this guy's a jerk realize that he's dumb and move on!
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reader, doafreak +, writes (18 February 2008):
 heyYou should definitely find out how he feels because if you don't you will regret it later. Parents don't like all of their children's friends or spouses for that matter. You only need to do what makes you happy. I'm sure things will work out for you.with love,brad
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