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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i am confused about my relationships. i am a girl in a secret relationship with this girl that i absolutely adore. but the problem is that she moved to a different country a couple weeks ago and now its an open relationship (meaning that we can meet other people and its not cheating) because she wanted it. i miss her so much and im gonna see her every break.i could give her all my love and keep an honest, long distance relationship, but she barely shows affection towards me and i know for a fact that she doesn't love me with all her heart.my feelings for her haven't changed much but im afraid im slowly gaining feelings for a close friend. this friend is also bi and has a boyfriend who's moving in a month. i hooked up with her before and she flirts with me sometimes.i want my girlfriend to be my everything but she hasn't even made effort to talk to me online for the past week... so... what do i do D: should i try harder to make my girlfriend love me? should i flirt with my friend?
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reader, EtTuBrute  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 The bottom line is you can't make anyone love you. If she doesn't have feelings for you, move on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Well you are in an open relationship so it is really up to you what you want to do here, if your girlfriend doesnt show any love for you and you are hardly going to see her then am afraid your love for her will probably fade away the more time you spend apart so your not doing anything wrong by having a little flirt with this close friend and see if she is interested in you, it may take her time especially if she is involved with a man at the moment it might be confusing to her for a while.
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