A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok a while ago i met a girl and we got on well, so i arranged to meet her again for a date. Unfortunately our date was interrupted by one of her friends (a guy) who very annoyingly decided to stay for the whole night. After a couple of hours with this guy i decided to leave as the night had definetly not gone to plan. I spoke to her the following day, apologising profusely for leaving but i felt like a bit of a third wheel etc etc. She said it was fine and we could arrange to see each other again soon, but afterwards whenever i tried to contact her she never got back to me. I assumed she got annoyed at me for leaving so didnt speak to her, i just thought it better to move on. I am however, going to see her tomorrow at a mutual friends birthday party. I didnt know this until today. Should i try and get back in with her, and try to arrange another date? Or should i just leave it?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (7 April 2012):
 What a rude interfering, selfish guy. He is interested in her and he is none too subtle.
Yes it does seem that she got annoyed at your leaving. She was not honest to you. Her actions since this took place say it all.
However give her one more chance. Be pleasant at the party. Let her talk. Let her tell you more about her. Nod and smile and add in a question or two. But don’t be too pushy. If you listen carefully enough you will discover a lot about her life. Use that information to contact her later with an instant date. Phone her up and ask her to join you for lunch. Keep it light and simple. And listen again intently. If you know she is going to the Library find yourself there at the same time and ask her if she’d like a coffee with you. Develop the relationship slowly with good manners and respect. If she is smart she will see that you are worth pursuing
If she is not smart enough to world out that you are an honourable guy then sadly you may have to move on.
My Best wishes to you
Regards
Abella
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012): For what ever reason dude she lost interest, unless she makes the effort to at the party i think you should just let it be and move on. There is plenty of woman out there for you my friend.
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