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Should I trust the Rhythm method?

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Question - (5 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have recently decided to come off the pill after years of being on it because I am trying to adapt a more healthy lifestyle and dont like the idea of all these stuff interfering with my body's natural system.

When my husband and I have sex he always pulls out (even when I was on the pill) .... simply because it creates less of a mess and he has always preferred it that way.

I would like to know what are the chances of my getting pregnant in this way. I know that precum is just a way of lubrication etc and it is the actual cum that contains the sperm. But still, does any one with a sound medical knowledge (not someone guessing) know the likelyhood of me getting pregnant this way? I think it is extremely extremely slim?

I am in a lovely relationship with my husband, and to be honest if I do or I dont get pregnant now or anytime in the future, either way is fine for us...Just let nature take its course whatever happens.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

yes you can get pregnant this way. i am a nurse in the sexual health/pregnancy clinic, and i see alot of young girls come in saying they didn't realise they could get pregnant that way, but yes you can! good luck xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

*******HI I AM THE ORIGINAL POSTER********

Before people get the wrong idea of the stick here: I am not trying to get pregnant or anything; if I ever get pregnant now or even years from now then it is fine, if I dont get pregnant then that is fine too. The only reason I am asking is just for curiosity sake....just the first person left a comment about why does it matter or why do I need to know....well I think I am allowed to be curious about my body and how these things work....thanks all xx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (5 June 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntEven the safest method , the pill is not 100% safe.

You may still get pregnant in rare cases.

There are no 100% safe contraceptive methods

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntBillions and billions of Catholics can't be wrong.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

Just to dispel the first myth - that pre-cum is just lubrication and nothing else - it actually contains millions of sperm. Ejaculate contains many millions more, and let's face it, you only need one of the little buggers to get through. So no, pulling out just a fraction before the vinegar stoke is not really a satisfactory method of birth control. To dispel the second myth, rather than offering an extremely slim chance of getting pregnant the rhythm method offers an extremely likely chance.

Take a look at the Brook Advisory Centres website where there's lots more information on this and many other matters. http://www.brook.org.uk/

If you've ever listened to Billy Connolly on the subject, he is very grateful to the Catholic Church and the rhythm method - without which, he says, he would not be here.

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