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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid One of my relative told me that my hubby was riding a lady with him, after knowing this i asked him but first he lied but after making cross question he said yes, but that was only coincident, she is just a friend. After going through detail I knew that my hubby and that girl are in the same training center for last 2 year in these 2 year he despertaly wants to go to that TC anyhow, he doesn't used to give time to me and my children , he even had invited her in one of our function. but he never told me that they were togother in that TC, now he had stoped going to TC, He even promised not even talk to that girl. Still i somewhere feel that he may be lying . Please help should i trust him . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): BIG NO.
TRUST IS EARNED AND HE HAS BROKEN IT. he now needs to wrok on getting this back and stop all communication with this woman. you also need to find out how far this affair went- was it also sexual. you also need to get a STD checkup done, just to make certain that you do not have any sexual disease.
2 yrs is a long time to conduct an affair, you need to get all the facts and he needs to start working on his realtionship with you and the kids.
he has messed around for 2 yrs, and its time to account for his actions. i suggest going forward you tell him NO LIES, you need to know everything. and believe me for a while he will be in contact, he will not break up completely with her. thi smay taken even months ( ia m hoping not years) to make the break. you also need to tell him its her or you and the kids. he must choose. but watch him from now on. he will start hiding more of his affair.
good luck
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