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writes:yesterday i got asked out by a really cute guy,who is pretty shy and polite.i gave him my messenger ID,my phone number(he asked for them) and he gave me his phone number as well.last night he texted me and told me he's happy we got closer to each other and we'll talk tomorrow to see at what hour we'll meet and told me good night and sweet dreams.his friend likes me as well and got jelous and distant with me.today the guy who asked me out only told me hi,stared at me and smiled,but didn't mention our date.should i text him to see if he wants to meet anymore?maybe he has other plans or is becoming distant as well?what should i do or say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Yeah, why not go ahead and ask him? You have nothing to lose! Don't let nervousness or shyness get in the way, not this early on!
You could just say something like, "Oh by the way, are you still up for meeting?" And then maybe you could suggest something, to get things moving, and see what he says. If he says he has other plans, then you could ask him to suggest a more convenient time.
He could just be shy at the moment, and it might need you to get the ball rolling, in a sense. At least at first. So give that a try and see what he says. Good luck! x
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reader, xAx +, writes (22 August 2009):
 You should text him something like this..
"Hey, are we still going to meet today? As my friend wants to make plans with me also and i don't know what to say to her. I haven't seen you in a while, and would like to meet up. "
Even if your friend hasn't asked you out that day, i think you should put it. It doesn't make you sound like you're always availiable and easy, and as he knows you can have plans, he should rush in to save you!
Hope this helps X
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