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writes:So, technically my ex boyfriend broke up with me a week ago. We've been going out for close to a year and this is the longest relationship both of us had ever been in. During the past year, we would constantly fight...mostly me end up getting mad at him because he wouldn't put effort into the relationship. Before this break up, we had a huge fight in the beginning of the year. Anyways, I gave him a week to think about things and he decided on ending the relationship for good because we argue to much and cause I am constantly mad at him. Obviously I am devasted. I just don't understand how easy it is for him to end things and if he truly loved me, then why wouldn't he want to work things out with me. I kinda want to let him know that... would it be a good idea to text him that?
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reader, Auntie Jez  +, writes (6 February 2009):
Give him some time and space, dont hassle him. In a month if you still feel like this then meet up with him to discuss it face to face.You were not getting on with him and there are lots of nice guys out there who would love to go out with you.Dont have a relationship that gives you hassle....find someone that makes you happy .. then you will wonder why you bothered with this guy.You are only young and there are plenty more fish in the sea even if it does not feel like this at the moment.
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reader, truelove +, writes (6 February 2009):
i think if you really want closer sit and talk about it face to face no arguments! however you dont know if he has found ending the relationship hard or not maybe he just needs time and you texting him etc wont give him time it will just make him more determined to end it. give him his space if he loves you hell come back if not please dont waste your life thinking what if this and what if that. (if its meant to be it will be) xxx take care xx
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reader, a_seidner06  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Honestly it hurts when your guy wants all of your commitment to end, but if he wants to end things, give him his space and he will eventually realize how much you really meant to him. When this situation occurred with me and my husband, it hurt a lot! But the only thing you can do is give it time, im sure he will come around. And if you are really thinking about letting him know how you feel, do not text your feelings to him. Text is a lazy way of talking. :)Good luck
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