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writes:I'm 14 (turning 15 in august) and I really like this guys who's a year older than me. It isn't just a crush, I am severely in love and I care more about his feelings than i do my own, But he doesn't like me, he likes my best friend, who's going out with someone, which is having a negetavie effect on his feelings, thus having a negative effect on my feelings. my best friend told him i like him, and he assured me it wouldn't be awkward like it usually is with these things, but now hes being overly friendly. Hes being too playful and i know hes only doing it to make me feel better but its making me feel worse. He catches my bus and because he's in grade 11, he didn't come to school the last day of term one. I was glad, because i wouldn't have to deal with any sort of emotional difficulties. Then when the bus pulled up at his stop, he got on, and i suddenly got all shaky and i felt ill. Luckily my stop is the one after his so i didn't have to deal with too much, but for the last three days i've been physically ill, and it started when he got on the bus. I don't know what to do, or what is happening any more. Should I tell him whats going on, or should i just keep pretending everythings all right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): sweetie, you're fourteen. Chances are, it IS just a crush. You have experienced hardly anything. There's no way you can make the judgment about whether or not its love. I bet you're just psyching yourself out. Calm down and deal with it rationally without jumping the gun with all this love talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): WOW hunny your love SICK !!!! lol :) it's prefectly fine I've gotten that way soooo many times before . Love has a strange effect on the mind, body , and soul. Have you ever thought that him being overly friendly and playful might mean he's starting to have feelings for you .....? Idk it's just a thaught..... I think you should tell him how you really feel and pour your heart out. Yes you could get hurt but it could be the best thing you ever did. And if you don't you may regret it . Be brave and honest and hopefully he has feelings for you too.
that's all the advice I have for you . GOOD LUCK . I wish you the very best and hope everything works out for you!
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