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writes: do you think i should tell my crush that i have dreams about her a few times per week eg. stroking each others legs. i wouldn't want to scare her. i would like to ask this girl out but do'nt really know what to say.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (11 June 2006):
 Well just be yourself again, what she saw she liked, Im guessing she just doesnt know you are interested again. Contact her ask her on a date and let her know you still like her.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): i would like to note that i went out with this girl 2 years ago for 6 months and she said she really liked me because i just be myself with her
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (10 June 2006):
I wouldnt tell her no. It might spook her! If you want to date her, ask her, she may feel the same way. Unless you ask her on a date you wont know, but I dont think telling her your dreams are going to help. See if shes interested in seeing you on a date basis and take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): I wouldnt jump right in and tell her of your dreams. Better to test the water first. Ask her to join you for a coffee. Be friendly towards her and most importantly, be yourself. Chat to her and get to know her likes and dislikes. You might find a great love or a lasting friendship.Unfortunately you may find out that she is not the one for you however perfect she seems now. Go into every relationship with a light heart and an open mind,and the outcome is often a wonderfully rewarding experience. How about asking "would you like to go for a coffee?" or "would you like to go to the cinema?" Dont be embarrassed if she declines, it obviously wasnt meant to be, and there will be others who will say yes in your future. On the other hand if she agrees, the same advice applies, take things slowly and get to know eachother.Remember no one is asking you to marry this girl. You have all the time in the world. Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): dont tell her! i made tht mistake before wiv my boyfriend an he just thought i was a freak! i think it scared him off and he broke up wiv me a few weeks later. honestly, trust me, dont tell her, in the long run you will probably feel very embarressed like i did in the end.but thats just my opinion from past experiance.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (10 June 2006):
 Well dont break the ice by telling her that you dream about stroking her legs.
Just casually ask her out for a drink, leg stroking can maybe be brought up in a later conversation, lol
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