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writes: hi,well simple, i fell in love with my best friend and he loved me, but at the time when he told me, i was with someone else and i said no, now he is drifting away and doesnt talk to me as much as he used to. i want to be with him and love him, what can i do?
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 explain to him how you feel it doesnt matter how you tell him if you have his mobile you could text him but explaining to his face is best. tell him you couldnt of said yes before could you had a boyfriend and you obvously dont cheat. Tell him that you've fell deeply in love with him and its hurting knowing that you arnt close to him any more. If his still distance then he isnt worth it. You can find some one better!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (11 June 2006):
 Dear Reader,
the answer is as simple as you explained your question.
First of all - are you still with the someone you were with when you said no to him?
Are you prepared to leave that someone for your best friend?
When you have asked yourself these questions simply just tell him how you feel. Tell him you've been a real idiot and you said no to him before because ... etc etc.
Don't tell him you love him yet, it may scare him that all of this comes at once. Instead of using love - how about saying you have strong feelings for im and have had them ince ... etc etc.
Problem Solved!
If he likes you as much as you say he does then there are no worries. Find you Happiness,
All The Best,
Phoebe
xxx
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