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writes:should i tell my boyfriend i feel uncomfortable with his ex girlfriend? she was his first love and one of my ex best friends. they didnt really do anything couples did in their seven month relationship, they were both shy. she broke up with him and ignored him for two years. within those two years i became his best friend by coincidence and tried helping him get back with her so i, more than anyone, know how he felt about her. well we started falling for one another instead... and she recently started talking to him since, im assuming here, it was our senior year in highschool. they dont talk much and rarely see each other, but when they might, i get really anxious and nervous. He's told me he has no feelings for her. but after all, she is his first love. it scares me that he might see why he fell for her again.. also, he is already sort of not talking to two girls i really dont like. one his choice. two he doesnt see the point. so should i bring this up or keep it to myself and pray to god he doesnt hang out with his somewhat friends (he hardly sees or talks to) in which the ex is going?
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 He has said to you that he holds no feelings for his ex, so until you know differently, I'd believe him. All this is doing is making you miserable and making you doubt him and yourself and this is really not healthy, as I'm sure you're aware!As long as he remains faithful to you, who he talks to or doesn't talk to, is of no consequence to you or your current relationship. Be positive and stop stressing about things you have no control over! Take time for yourself too, talk to your friends and do things you enjoy.Good luck! AK.
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