A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my question.I am wondering if it is normal for a man not to approach a woman sexually in a relationship but instead tell her it is up to her to approach him for intimacy etc? It used to be that my boyfriend would aggressively approach me on a sexual level which was quite arousing to be honest. I find now that he does not initiate kissing like he used to ( at all to be honest unless I go to him as suggested) or at times he might just blatantly suggest that I give him fellatio on demand. Intimacy just isnt what it used to be with him and I am wondering if this is "Normal".P.S. Sometimes I try to intervene when he is watching television and suggest sexual activity and he just turns me down.What the heck is going on here? Thank you for your time.
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reader, jstdunno  +, writes (19 August 2009):
I don't think blatantly suggesting that you give blowjobs is saying that it is ''up to her to approach him for intimacy''.
It should be give and take in a healthy relationship. One person should not be the initiator all the time.
You need to sit down and talk to him beacuse nobody here is psychic (I think!). Clearly something is wrong. Either that or he has become lazy and doesn't want to seduce you he just wants a blowjob and doesn't care about your needs.
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