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Should I tell my best mate I am in love with them??

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Question - (24 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Ok, i have posted this question before, but i really need help urgently

I have fallen in love with my best guy mate who i talk to on the internet and he has a girlfriend. I have never told him how i feel about him because i'm too scared and worry that our friendship will break up.

I feel that he has been dropping hints now and again that he feels the same way, but i can't be sure.

Recently, him and his girlfriend broke up, but they got back together, i was gonna tell him how i feel but now it seems pointless!

I really need to know what to do, should i tell him how i feel and just hope for the best? I'm crazy about him!

Please help

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A male reader, MrShy South Africa +, writes (24 April 2006):

HEY THERE.

I recon you should first find out what he thinks of your relationship. Find out if you sees you as a friend, or as someone that he can have an intimate relationship with!!

Tell him that you don't know where you stand now as he sometimes hints things at you, and you don't want to have the wrong impression and that you just wanted to clear the air.

MrShy

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2006):

bonym agony auntReader, your friend has a girlfriend so please don't ruin a potentially good friendship.

I believe that there is a time and a season for everything, if the two of you are to be together, absolutely nothing will prevent that, but if he has got back with his girlfriend, then it seems as if his heart is committed to another girl. My dear, wait, don't tell him anything yet, be his friend, his best friend, be his shoulder to cry on, the one whomn he can tell everything to and if in time, he feels the same, trust me girl, you will be together, if not, cherish the friendship you have!! God bless you xXx

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