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We live together and only have sex once a week now, he won't let me touch him otherwise. How can I change things with him?

Q.   I am gay and have been in a relationship with my bf for over two years and we've been living together for one year. Things have been going well except for in the bedroom. Sex is strictly once a week very late at night on a weekend (and with no exc...

A.   22 March 2007: Hey there. You need to sit down and chat with him about this face to face. He needs to sit down and figure out why he feels this way because this will cause a lot of discomfort on either side for both. It's strange that before you moved in tog... (read in full...)

We live together and only have sex once a week now, he won't let me touch him otherwise. How can I change things with him?

Q.   I am gay and have been in a relationship with my bf for over two years and we've been living together for one year. Things have been going well except for in the bedroom. Sex is strictly once a week very late at night on a weekend (and with no exc...

A.   18 March 2007: Hi there, Firstly, I want to say that I know how you feel when you are the one that initiates everything and from the sound of things you do everything right, and you know when to pull back when he doesn't reciprocate your feelings and your nee... (read in full...)

I was going to have my first lesbian experience when...something terrible happened. Please help!

Q.   Dear cupid, I'm 18 and a very unfortunate thing has happened to me and I need your kind words to get me through it all. (I am in tears as I write this). I am bi-curious and I wanted to turn my fantassy into a reality. I met a woman on the internet...

A.   23 February 2007: Hello, I couldn't agree more with rhythmandblues2 and with Irish49. You should be thankful, and greatful that you found this out before meeting her in person. I get this vibe that she only wants to get laid, and is very inconsiderat... (read in full...)

He treats me so bad! Why do I love him? Any advice?

Q.   Hello, My heart is so broken. I am in love with a man who for some reason does not respect me and can not treat me consistently and kindly. He keeps me stringing along, says he loves me and then ignores me. Wants me to live with him and marry me...

A.   20 January 2007: Hello, As I read this post, I almost passed out, as your current scenario is almost the exact replica of my situation, and honestly speaking, I'm also fed up with the nonsense. What Irish49 wrote, I agree with 100%, but I know exactly how you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best mate I am in love with them??

Q.   Ok, i have posted this question before, but i really need help urgently I have fallen in love with my best guy mate who i talk to on the internet and he has a girlfriend. I have never told him how i feel about him because i'm too scared and worry th...

A.   24 April 2006: HEY THERE. I recon you should first find out what he thinks of your relationship. Find out if you sees you as a friend, or as someone that he can have an intimate relationship with!! Tell him that you don't know where you stand now as he sometime... (read in full...)

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