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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem I need help with. I'm in love with my best friend. We've been stuck to each other for four years. She has never hurt me. She has always been there for me when I needed a shoulder to cry on. When she has a problem or just needs a friend i'm there always. There is a bit of an age difference that bothers me though. I'm 18 she is 15. And she has a boyfriend. I've been in love with this chick for three years. She is perfect. Funny sweet beautiful shy but outgoing smart caring very kind and loving. She is like one of the guys too. She took me in when I didn't have a home anymore. I'd die and kill for her. Should I tell her how I feel?
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (29 October 2010):
It depends on what result you want. If you just want to get it off your chest and confess so maybe you can start to move on, then go ahead. But if you want her to accept you and date you or still be best friends with you, you might not want to. How's her relationship with her bf? Do you think she might have feelings for you too? Because generally when you're in the friend category/close friend category, that's all they see you as. And telling her will make her awkward around you for a bit at least. Not to mention what sort of effect it will have on her bf, whether she tells him or not, etc.
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