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writes: Need advice: lived with partner for 19 years, found out he was cheating, split with him but tried to work things out. We still had sex anyway, this is now 3 years on, and up till Feb we were still having sex, although he has new partner that he lives with. He said he was coming back to me. I love him and cannot move on without him. Tried to tell his new partner, but he got angry and now I don't know what to do.Should I tell her what he was up to, as I want him back? Please help
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reader, AMY1972 +, writes (3 April 2005):
hi,I know that you want him back and that you are feeling a lot of pain right now. He has shown that he doesn't have any intention of coming back to you. He is after all having his cake and eating it.Telling her I think would be a big mistake, tempting as it is, because all that will probably happen is she will leave him and he will resent you. You really do deserve better than this and should not be having sex with him anymore at least until he has decided between you or her.Are you so sure that you want him back after all of this?Please, you are worth so much more than this - you really are. Let go of him and start to move on with your life. Believe me when I tell you that I know exactly what you are going through, mine did exactly the same, but afterwards when I decided that I wasn't doing this anymore he chose her.Don't let him hurt you anymore, nobody is worth that.Take care
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